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I Didn’t Refuse Help. I Didn’t Feel Safe Accepting It.
When I turned down Early Intervention for my daughter, it wasn’t because I didn’t love her. It was because help didn’t feel neutral. It felt like exposure. For poor parents, the line between support and scrutiny is thin.
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She Didn’t Sleep Through the Night for the First Three Years
My daughter didn’t sleep through the night for the first three years of her life. Not once. She needed presence, pressure, and movement to settle. There was no diagnosis yet, no language for what we were navigating, only the quiet knowing that her body did not rest the way other babies’ bodies seemed to. I…