Midwest Mimi

  • The Difference Between Canceling and Choosing Rest

    When you live with chronic illness, disability, or even just the daily realities of parenting, plans don’t always unfold the way you imagine. Sometimes, life forces you to cancel. Other times, you make the choice to rest. On the surface they can look the same: you’re not showing up. But the meaning and the weight…

  • Why Vacation Is So Special: Healing, Reconnecting, and Starting Fresh

    Vacations aren’t just an escape from everyday life. They are a powerful pause, a chance to reset our hearts and minds, and a moment to build new, joyful memories with loved ones. The Science of Vacation Magic Boosts longevity and heart health: A longitudinal study of over 12,000 high-risk men found that taking an annual…

  • When the Plan Changes: Flexibility in a Neurodivergent Family

    Change is hard for most people, but if you live in a neurodivergent household like ours, you know it can hit differently. When the plan shifts, whether it’s a sudden rainstorm canceling a hike or a store being unexpectedly closed, it’s not just a small inconvenience. It can throw off the entire day’s rhythm and…

  • Real Life, Real Limits: Giving Yourself Grace Outdoors

    I’m not perfect at this. We, as a family, aren’t either. Not even close. We’ve had so many great days outside; moments of laughter, peace, and connection. But we’ve also had fights, sensory meltdowns, forgotten supplies, plans canceled by pain, and days when someone had to stay behind. Sometimes, that someone is me. I want…

  • 🌿 Seeing Nature Through My Kids’ Eyes

    I often get asked how we manage family adventures with kids of different ages, needs, and personalities. The truth is, it takes a lot of planning, patience, and flexibility. But it also takes something even more important: the way each of my kids brings their own unique strengths, quirks, and hearts into our time outdoors.…

  • 🌿 Why Kankakee River State Park Stole Our Camping Hearts (and Might Steal Yours Too) 🌿

    Earlier this spring, we packed up the circus (a.k.a. our family) and headed to Kankakee River State Park for a few days of camping. And honestly? We’d go back in a heartbeat. The Campground Vibes We camped midweek in May, which meant blessed peace and quiet. No generators humming, no kids shrieking at dawn (other…